REALLY!?! My D18 hates that I have FB. She thinks "OLD" people shouldn't be on there. I like it to keep up with friends/family that I don't see or talk to much.
I so understand the time thing. I don't know if I'll ever get over xh. But I have to say, him being the man he is today helps ALOT. If he was the same man I was married to for so long, I would probably be still waiting, oh, I don't know. Someone asked me the other day if it was hard getting used to a new man and his ways after being M for so long. I said "no, not really because "new guy" and I have so much in common." she then asked do you think you'll ever be as close as xh and you? I said,"no, xh was my soul mate, no one will ever take his place".
Congrats on the upcoming M!! How exciting! How Fun!
It's so crazy how they just walk away, not so much from us but from their kids. I don't know about your H but mine was such a good dad. And D18 and him were so close. And now,...? I don't get it.
Hmm, the patience thing...well anyone that has read my sitch knows...But I have learned so much. So many changes. I don't argue anymore, what's the point. I don't yell. I try to never sweat the small stuff. I guess one of my biggest accomplishments is I've learned to let go of alot of my fears. Or conquer them, whatever you want to say. I used to be afraid of so many things around the farm. My xh was no teacher or guide. In the last year I've worked cattle a couple times. I can now get in a pen of cows and not be shaken in my boots. Quite the contrary. I've learned to run the loader tractor, I've hauled wagons with the tractor, lots and lots of new stuff. I missed out on so many things over the years. I blame fear, xh, timing, kids, but mostly myself. I always thought there would be another day. It didn't happen. So now, I'm not wasting any time. I'm taking advantage of each and every moment.
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I need to catch up on your thread....we pretty much had the same timeline.....I wish we could all have a get together and meet...I think it would be a blast...preferably somewhere warm...
I agree, fun!fun! and warm too!
take care Treese and best of luck to you, Teresa
M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!
I like it to keep up with friends/family that I don't see or talk to much. 