It's ego-shattering and I won't go easy on myself on this one. This special, precious person was hurt by ME. Oh, I believe her and don't think she was drunk. I don't want to go into details, suffice it to say, I don't want redemption.

~Mark

Me: 38
W: 34
Together: 9yrs
1st M: may '03
1st D: april '08
1st bomb: june '08
remarried: oct '08
2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)