Atta girl you got there on your own steam today so your learning how to deal with the childish one..

I know it sounds awful but does he have to stay at your house to see S. Sorry but I wouldnt be allowing him to stay over if he treated me so disrespectfully. No one deserves to be called those sorta names. Personally I'd go with these are the days you see S, but you dont get to see me, can you retreat to your room and read a book or the study and go online, or go out. Even if you go to the local coffee shop and read your book. Dont cook any food for H when he is there, infact dont buy the popcorn if S wouldnt share he wouldnt get any would he lol!

As for some of the above, stop blaming yourself for his behaviour, yes youre probably 50% to blame for the marriage breakup but you are not responsible for how he behaves now 100% NOT.

Now I hope by now youre enjoying making new memories whilst knowing that the childish one is just shooting himself in his own foot!

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W 47
H 47
M 24
T 30

Once lost but now found and happily married again!