Honestly my H went to get his space at his sisters for a bit, after three weeks he got his own place, I honestly thought I was doomed so in away NC was going to be the best route because I was going to have to do that if we D'd..

All of this was the making of me and dare I say it "playing the game" sometimes even became fun.. but ironically it was fun that seemd to be missing as far as H was concerned. Certainly all us girlies like to be wine dined and courted, but you fella's like to chase, so thats what I did made him chase me again! So if you back off and ignore her as best as you can, GAL and if you cant look like you have until you can, things do get back to them as I said in my previous thread..

And as H4L said keep coming back in here for encouragement, cuddles and friends.. You can be a big help to the girls on here who need to know how a man would think.. the fella's on here were fab when I saw my H for the first time in a month they were so naughty lol.

Chin up you will get through this somehow!


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W 47
H 47
M 24
T 30

Once lost but now found and happily married again!