Originally Posted By: SoldierDad
Now I have to think that it's OK for her to be with as many OM as she wants-hell, his e-mail really didn't change anything-she was doing it anyway.


That's not the way to look at it.

You don't have to be OK with her seeing other men; you just have to accept that you have no influence over it, even in a legal sense.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."