I think many of us LBS change through all of this more than we realize. We are forced to sink or swim and we discover alot about ourselves and get a healthy perspective on what was and what we are now.
I think this is why ofen LBS's become WAS's in some way. The old relationship is dead and whether the new you's can do. only time will tell.
Just remember that it's the new you that you need to take care of.
Formerly SGfan M:38 W:33 M:8 yrs T:10 yrs Bomb: Dec '08 Separated: 4/18/09 Divorce: 8/28/09 XW Affair began: April 08