I understand your anger, but I think you are probably getting into a fight that you can't win. You can't control your H, and you certainly can't control his parents!
We don't know what he knew, or when he knew it. I expect that he isn't really comfortable telling them what to do. For one thing, despite everything, I imagine his parents do know that what he has done is wrong. I would not be shocked if he kind of avoids them, as well.
Treese, it's better to not let him in your head, rather than to let him mess it up! What happened wasn't "fair", but there's really nothing you can do about it. Don't let it mess with you.
