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I am at the point though where I will not call, text or initiate any kind of contact.


Good for you! This is so difficult for the LBH. It is the right thing to do, even though it's painful.

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if just keep the pressure off. R talk, OM talk etc....


She said that? If so, then it sounds really hopeful.....but look at her conditions. Can you stay away from talking about OM & the R?

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I mentioned "retrouvaille" and told her it was for people like us, going thru what we are going thru, trying to make another go at it. She said she would be interested.... baby step.


Wow, that's not a baby step....that is huge! I'm surprised she did not see it as a lot of pressure being applied. I just hope OM will not be in the picture when you go to the retreat or it may not have the same affect. Anyway, if she is really interested in going, then getting registered, etc. would be another great step in the right direction.

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Anyway S2, it was great to see you here. How is your health? I prey very well. been thinking 'bout cha!


Ahhh, thank you so much for that! The past several months my pain level has been high, but today....it was not as bad. So, kind of like you in your stich.....I really appreciate the good days when I can get them. Thank so much for the prayers b/c that is what gets the job done.

Take care,
Sandi


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!