So what are you doing to improve the situation?

What 180's have you decided to work on?

What options for going and and getting a life (GALing) are you considering?

Did she mention anything at dinner about what she's missed in the R or what has changed? ("You never tell me how much you love me", "You go out with your friends all night", etc.) Those might be good things to consider working on.

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."