Sandi, she's not coming to the Tennis with me & the kids, and she's not coming to S15's 16th birthday in a couple of weeks.
Okay, but are those her "choices"....or a "result" of her bad decisions? Sorry if you said and I've forgotten. But I wanted to try to make myself more plain about the "loss" or "shock". If the consequences of walking away from a M is not greater than remaining.....then why would she consider staying in a R she doesn't like?
If she does not miss anything due to her decision to walk away, then what could you do to shock the mess out of her?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
