Gardener makes a good point about not being able to file first. From now on you have to be the first one to act GIMA. The first to split the family photos, the first to split your property, the first to cancel credit cards, put the utility bills in your name, etc. etc. I learned a few months ago that if I did this I felt alot better. It hurts soo much more if the WAW does all of those things FIRST.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
