Mixed Signals or is this Limbo Land

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missherlove,
I don't know the OW, and I'm not friends with her on FB. My H told me we met years ago while we were dating, and he said he didn't even know her that well back then. I've thought about trying to befriend her, but I think that would make my H mad. I can see her pics, and that is about it. I really wish I could see her wall, but it wouldn't do me any good if I could I guess.

I know what you mean about the emotions, this up and down is the worst. I was having such a good day today because of the positive encounter last night. Then when I came home from work and realized that I'm doing everything; kids, shopping, working, cleaning, homework and I go to school full time. I'm really getting burned out without his help. And he was a big help when he lived here. Now that he's gone, he wants to offer no help at all. I think he is loving the single live. On the nights he's not with the kids, he goes out. I hate being the left behind spouse. I guess right now, I'm so angry with him.