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think the message here is to be unpredictable and somewhat aloof. YES? and to what extent?


You got it! Yes, yes, yes!

To what extent? You don't act cold, angry, or a jerk. Can you be aloof without acting those ways? If so, then good going.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!