The adventure chronicles

[AFWAW]

I would call if she were available but it can wait till normal business hours I think. She doesn't have a way to access the house at this point. Some questions I will be asking my lawyer tomorrow:
1. What grounds do I need for restraining order.
2. Since she's not paying child support anymore and there is no visitation stipulated by the court, do I have to make my daughter go stay with her if she doesn't want to?


I'm trying to think of some more but am stuck at this point. Any questions that anyone can think that I should ask would be greatly appreciated.

I did speak with my father this evening and he suggested I call a realtor and have a for sale sign put out tomorrow to call her bluff. His statement was with the market being what it is right now, I doubt it will sell quickly anyway and it may buy you some time. Pretty good advice, I think as she did say in her email that unless the house was for sale by the end of next week, she would be moving back in.

I did talk with Air Force assignments today--lucky for me, I know the guy who works my assignments. Anyway, he knows of my sitch and asked me if I have considered moving. I have and my first option is Hawaii--there is no kidding an assignment avaialable there to report in May. The problem is, I've heard a lot of bad stories about the school system there. Does anyone have any feedback on this? He said, my second option is to apply for a stateside to stateside base of preference and asked if I had ever considered Tuscon, AZ? Well, I've heard a lot of good things about this area and am leaning towards that. Anyone have any feedback and/or live in this area?

And, you can always call her C.O. if she begins to force her way into the house.

I will consider this and may brief my CO as well as I still have the emails and IMs admitting to me that she cheated on me.

I know hindsight is 20/20 but I wish I would have filed a while ago--I've held on for too long. I fear that this will become ugly very quickly.