Thanks Wonderful and soleil. I am in IC for me and have been for the past two months. I was just interviewing other counselors to make sure I have who I really trust when the time comes for my wife to hopefully join us in counseling.

I agree that I don't think now is the right time for my W to go to counseling with me as she just wants to go for closure. I'm really trying not to put a timetable on this. I realize my wife didn't get here overnight and it will take some time. I just miss my wife and want her back.

Keep the suggestions coming. There are very helpful.


M 38
WAW 36
Together 19 years
Married 12 years
Bomb/Separated Oct. 09
I love my wife
Sitch