Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

Just thought of something.

OM might have been asked something by his W. My W may not know OM is M.

OM may have TOLD my W, that I contacted HQ in order to either end the A, cover his A$$ at his work, or to shield HIS W from the A.

Thoughts?

[TrentC]

Just thought of something.

OM might have been asked something by his W. My W may not know OM is M.

OM may have TOLD my W, that I contacted HQ in order to either end the A, cover his A$$ at his work, or to shield HIS W from the A.

Thoughts?

Yes. Stop obsessing over this.

This is too much mental energy being spent on something you can't control or influence. For all you know, your wife may split up from this guy next week and be chasing after someone else.

[SoldierDad]

Ok,

I see what you are saying. The thing is, I STILL haven't said anything to anyone about the A-except for my W.

I contacted OMW. I didn't say anything about an A, or my W.

I believe that I did reestablish a boundary with my W. Now, can I uphold that boundary being so far away? Not really, but she now knows that I am standing up for that boundary.

I'm not sure she looks at it like that, but I could be wrong. I see it more of her being angry that I am ruining her plans.

I am open to thoughts and criticism on this. Thanks.

[SoldierDad]

Ok,
I am going to try to goback to sleep. O500 comes in 2 hours.

[TrentC]

I am open to thoughts and criticism on this. Thanks.

My problem with your previous post is that you're spending too much energy trying to figure out how your wife found out that you contacted OMW. Does it really matter how?

* OMW told OM, who told W
* OMW told W, maybe not knowing she and OM are an item
* W might be referring to the soldier that you went up and down the chain of command on (not sure if this is the same guy)
* W might have overheard something completely unrelated and is fishing for answers

[Lotus]

I would tell her you don't know what she is talking about. You didn't contact HQ about OM. And that's it. You didn't.

[MichelleLT]

That's not even worth responding to, except perhaps as Lotus suggested.

You are wasting a lot of energy on this and accomplishing nothing.

Hope you are sleeping.

Turn the sound off on your computer. Or even turn the whole thing off when you are sleeping.

[SoldierDad]

Ya,

I just need to let it go.

[givingitmyall]

Ya,

I just need to let it go.

Let it go buddy. Not worth your time.

[Puppy Dog Tails]

I would tell her you don't know what she is talking about. You didn't contact HQ about OM. And that's it. You didn't.

This. ^