Hi Undefeated, I think that its very wise for you to plan on not being intimate with him if it is one of your boundaries! And I think that its smart to try it on for size by saying it outloud! Just make sure that you dont give in!
I think that often in a failing relationship sex is one of the last intimate ways that a couple can interact, but when there is an A involved it just sort of becomes an opportunity for cake eating and the possible introduction of STI's!
The essay sounds neat, youll have to send me the info on FB!
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...