motherof3,
I just caught up on your sitch. I have to say our sitch’s are so similar, it’s scary. I’ll add my link if you want to check my sitch out.

I am also trying the LRT, and it is the hardest thing I have ever done. The urge to call, email or text H is incredibly strong, but I am on day 5 of being successful at fighting those urges. I am trying to GAL, but also have the same problem, no single friends. Everyone I was around during the holidays was married and it just made me even more depressed. I think it’s those lonely times that are the worst.

I hope you are doing well (-:

my story

Together 16 years
Married 12 years
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10