Hi Maynard, Thanks for stopping by. That is so true, everything is fixable. The problem is the will is gone from H. I am trying to keep the focus on myself. Am in LRT, dark except for minimal contact about house stuff.
But I had to ask him to watch the dogs because I have an overnight trip for work. And, here we go again, he's starting up w the crap about haven't I gotten the sep. agrmt. reviewed. His email, "Do you know if your lawyer has responded to L's letter that she sent in November? Is there stuff we need to talk about?" 1. There is a lot of stuff wrong w the draft his L sent my L beginning of Dec. 2. I have had -0- time to go over every financial item in Dec. 3. "We" won't be talking about "stuff" - that's what the Ls are paid big bucks for. I swear, it's like talking to a wall. I really need to detach much more, and work on GAL.
M, you have my support as well. And, just a thought, while I think it's helpful to see things from the WAS view, we don't really know what they're thinking. I've found it to be a "cheeseless tunnel", and very painful to do this. Every day I have to force myself to focus on me. I am trying to read "Codependent No More" an excellent book recommended on here by many for detachment. I'm about 1/2 way through. Got to work on this more.
Best to you too - I will stop by your thread soon. Thanks for your support & wishing you strength.
