Good on you!!! How is offering to be available 20 minutes BEFORE his scheduled time keeping him from the baby, though?

I understand your fear - but as long as you are available according to the court documents, you are BETTER than good!

An even better response?
"X, we're not available until the scheduled time this afternoon." Then followed up by your excellent point for more notice for REQUESTED changes.
And just because he asks, doesn't mean it works for you every single time.

He is in for some adjusting - but you will be SO better off for it!

(((hugs)))