Ok, there's been a twist. WAW is getting aggressive. She wrote the following:

Unless the house is for sale by the end of next week, I will be moving back into it. I will pay half the payment for both mortgages, half the power, half the water, half the cable/internet. I would like the two unused bedrooms cleaned out so I can move my things into them as those two rooms will be MY primary residence. I also will need my space cleared out in the garage so I can park there. I will gladly come and clean the rooms out myself and paint them if we can work out an agreeable time for me to do so. There is no need to argue about this as I have already checked into it and it's perfectly legal since my name is on the deed to the house.

My response was the following:

You're not going to tell to me how and what you're going to do regarding this situation. You gave up that right. Once again, this was your decision.

As far as your moving back here, you're not going to dictate that either. You are not paying for the mortgage at this time so you have no legal claim or right for that matter to move back in. Furthermore, you will not tell me what to do regarding having a room cleaned out. So we are clear on this, you are not moving back in at this time nor will you ever dictate to me when you are moving back in.

You obviously have no interest in saving our marriage or any interest in my feelings or what I want. That is clear to me as you have once again lied to me regarding your intentions. You told me that you were going to sign up for counseling and did not.

If you want to ask me a question then do so but don't presume now or ever that you can talk to me in this manner whether it be in an email, on the phone or in person.

Ugh, more drama... Thoughts on this?


M-41
ex-W-40
Together--17 years
SS-20
D-14
Bomb--2 Feb 09
WAW--6 Feb 09
Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!!
ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!!
Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!