Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

Ok,

I see what you are saying. The thing is, I STILL haven't said anything to anyone about the A-except for my W.

I contacted OMW. I didn't say anything about an A, or my W.

I believe that I did reestablish a boundary with my W. Now, can I uphold that boundary being so far away? Not really, but she now knows that I am standing up for that boundary.

I'm not sure she looks at it like that, but I could be wrong. I see it more of her being angry that I am ruining her plans.

I am open to thoughts and criticism on this. Thanks.