I took baby to run an errand and head to the park for a bit before exh's visit time. We were only 5 minutes away. Exh sends a text 30 minutes before his visit time.
Exh: Going to swing by right now to see baby before I have to pick up d15. Me: We are not home right now, but will head that way. Be there in 10 minutes. Exh: NEVERMIND! Me: Well, if you want to come by please give me some notice.
Our papers state that he is supposed to call and let me know when he will be there. He has a 3 hour window to see baby and for the most part I am home during those hours just waiting. I am not doing that anymore. I won't go far so I can get back, but sitting here waiting on call seems to cross a boundary for me! It was also 30 minutes before the time anyway.
Now the fear kicks in. I don't want to ever be accused of keeping her from him or canceling visits. I am hypersensitive to that now as MGF said that is what exh said all the time...that I would cancel his visits. I never have! He is such a liar. I do have a very detailed journal of visits and times and hope a judge would believe that.
So...I stood up to him and not let him cross a boundary. Feels good and scary at the same time!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
