Can any good come out of giving W some "space"

[brknheart]

There's a clue in there!

When you left her alone, she came to you.

Then you rushed, and things broke.

Hmmmm......

If you only have another month or two in you, you might as well save yourself the trouble.

But if you have a day, and then another, you can do it.

Yea, when I didnt talk to her the 1.5 mths, she claimed she was upset that I didnt talk to her, that I didnt care about her. I dont get it, she didnt want me anymore, she told me to move on, she told me we are over! Then she comes back. Yes, I should have backed off. She also felt that I didnt pursue her enough when she first moved out, I dont agree about this. When she came back, I didnt want to let her go, didnt want to lose her again. I didnt want to come off as needy either...

Another thing to mention if I didnt, she said space will allow her to think about what she really wants, if she wants to work on this M. She wants to make a decision using her head (which was not clear the first 3 mths) and not make a decision with her heart.