Can any good come out of giving W some "space"

[brknheart]

Patience sucks a%*.

Patience is a very weak point of mine. LoLaL, I cant take much more of this, maybe a month or two. We have no kids, so we are not tied down. Regarding her friend, we talk occasionally, then out of the blue she calls me last week to see how I am doing. She told me things (past and present) about my W that if my W found out, she would disown that friend. I think she called because she doesnt like what my W is doing, feels sorry for me. She even said she doesnt want to see me get screwed in the end. We went out for some coffee and a movie, talked some more.

Not sure if I mentioned this earlier, but my W even said she wouldnt do what I am doing if she was in my shoes. I asked what is that suppose to mean, should I just give up? She said no, she wants space to see what happens. Very mixed signals. I know many people would have run from the beginning of this.

I havent called her in over a week. Txted a couple of times to ask about non R stuff.

I dont want to explain what happen in this thread before this "space" thing, but to sum it up short and sweet. My W moved out, lived with a friend for 3.5 mths, I didnt talk or see her for 1.5 mths, she comes over one day to talk, we start hanging out, slept over at her place a couple of times, she said I was going to fast and smothering her, i should have backed off, she came up with the "space" plan, i moved out of the house, she moved back in. Most people said not to move out of the house, but I would have anyway if we get a D.