You would be offended if your guy... was talking to other guys...and some ladies...whom he trusted very much, about how awesome you were and how cool it was, without actually saying what you did...and they have no idea in the world who you are?
I think I understand...
But then if my wife did that to me?
I'd be walking down the street with my hands over my head saying "Yup! That was me!"
Last edited by Jack_Three_Beans; 01/06/1010:13 PM.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
just for clarity.......you didn't need to go step by step and say what you did. The implication is that you all made up "very well."
And while I have some friends here, and do trust those friends......this is still the internet.....so although your intent is to share your victory and great DB-ing with the 200 people you trust the most (and congrats to you on successful DBing through the fight, etc.) you still are broadcasting your "making up" with great jammies so that the implication is there, and THAT is what would offend me if I were your wife. www.divorcebusting.com is probably not where she wants her most intimate details.......
But I could be wrong. You should ask her.
I get that when we come here, we bare our souls. I know that I've done it, but even in the thick of my situation, even as much of a jack@$$ as my ex IS, I still had an air of protection over him.
Now the gloves are off because he's a dolt.....but we still share a child, so I still bite my tongue..a lot.
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
Seriously. Was it wrong? ...the fact that I answered your statement about telling her with a "What? Do I look stupid?" Tells me that in retrospect it wasn't right.
As for the 200 people I trust... well... about 0 of them live near me. : ) Ok...another good point however.
Last, I am sorry that you are having a bad day.
I am sorry for my part in it.
You are one of the core people here whom I care what you think.
Even if you chicked out on me. ; ) Ok ignore that part if it upsets you. That was just for fun the rest was true. And Mach says I am great at digging my own hole.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
ha ha ... is it safe? You tell me. I was just giving you my opinion as a woman FWIW.
I'm actually having a pretty good day. Snow day, with snow that didn't start till noon, time with Peanut at home, not having to dress up in work clothes... But that just hit me wrong. All the testosterone was clogging my lungs or something...
I know that guys will be guys. I just wanted to point out a little something for you to ponder.
I'm allowed to chick out every now and then. I have ovaries.
And the good thing about living in Alaska....would be that you should have TONS of shovels.
Peace!
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
Snow shovel talk on testosterone day? Can we instead change the subject to something a bit more manly like the NFL commissioner is considering to allow zombies to play in the league.
