missherlove I had the same experience on FB. H told me what bar he had gone to for New Years Eve, but wouldn’t tell me with whom, just old friends he said. Now I still don’t know if H is having an EA/PA affair, but I have my suspicions. But a couple of nights ago on FB, the OW that I suspect the EA with posted a pic of her at the bar that my H said he was at for New Years Eve. And she had a Happy New Years Eve hat on, that was just 2 nights ago, and that is the night I started snooping really bad as you can see in one of my earlier posts. But thankfully H doesn’t know about me snooping.
Sorry that yours had to play out in front of D13, that’s just really sad. But it sounds like you handled well.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me: 36 H: 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10