I talked to a friend of mine who is a pastor. He told me what I know deep down inside. That W, who had a lot of screwed up dealings with guys long before me, doesn't know will make her happy and she has it in her head that getting a divorce will make her happy.
It's like all the promotions she got, she thought those would make her happy.
It's like buying a bigger house would make her happy.
It's like when she wanted to get a dog because that would make her happy.
Now it's getting a divorce, that will make her happy.
In all the other cases, the happiness wore off and she started looking around again.
He basically said the best thing I can do is get myself as good a deal as possible, give her the divorce and rebuild my life.
When the temporary happiness wears off she'll have to either grow up and face what she's done and her issues, or move on to something else that will make her happy.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
