Moving on with my life!

[iwantittowork]

DF is saying exactly what I am trying to convey to you. Great post DF, you rock!

The mommy group I belong to is a meetup group. All younger than me, and all married but its something to do.

Age is just a number. That group I met up with was late 20's early 30's, but who cares! They were nice, we had a nice meeting, lunch, had fun with the kids, and looking forward to meeting up with them and doing stuff together with my d8 and they and their kids. That's what counts!

I want to let go of that dream and look forward to possibly something new in my life someday.

Yes. Let it go. Let go of the outcome. The 'dream' you have is not the man you had in reality. But that dream man could be out there. You won't find him until you let go of the vision you thought you had, and work on the new SO2, and her goals and plans.

Maybe you can have your cell plan changed (or just suggest that it was changed):

I was going to suggest this too, and you DF response is perfect. You don't owe him anything, including reasoning for doing the things you want to do.