You just cracked me up with #1. Valid point and noted!
Okay, so to clarify a bit:
1- To have my husband have affectionate physical contact with me (ie. touch my leg, hug, anything that falls outside of the realm of strangling- that was for you Jack, etc.) 2- My husband will call or text me at least once a day. 3- My husband will ask me questions about my day or myself. (He has been so self centered during this dilemma and I miss his concern for me). 4- H will ask me out on a "date" (being something small like lunch or grab dinner. We're not coffee people.) 5- My husband will have a pleasant, meaningful conversation with me about something not pertaining to our relationship for more than 20 minutes.
Better now. You are right about the specifics. I haven't really written my goals before and just let them rattle in my head. There's lots of room to rattle in there, believe me!
Also, anyone recommend any good reads out there other than DR and DB? I bought a book called "Surving Your Husband's Midlife Crisis" and got about 30 pages in before thinking how toxic it was and horrifying that a book like that be marketed. Sorry if anyone enjoyed it, but I thought it was terrible for those looking to restore a marriage.
