Can any good come out of giving W some "space"

[HHIF]

I know the feeling,when we were first seperated I would ask her friends things and when she found out it made her madder and more distant.

It sounds like she is very confused which is very common.I know you want to fix things,so do I but you can't,you have to detach and let her figure it out.

I've been back home almost two years and she is still going through who she is and what she wants and yes it seems very selfish and unfair but I can't make her do anything,the only person we have control over is ourselves.

You have got to work on you and let her see you getting on with your life and not begging her or chasing her.

I am not giving up on my wife but that is something that is different for everyone.