She seemed to have a pessimistic view on hope. She told me that it generally takes two years for the W to change her feelings and want to work on the marriage.
Find a new counselor.
And also, go to IC by yourself. And like the poster above says, there is no timetable on these things.
Originally Posted By: mza8
For the W who separated from your husbands, how long was it for you until your feelings changed and you wanted to try working on the marriage or give your H a second chance?
I could really use some help right now.
Every sitch is different so don't look for an "average." And I've never heard that it takes 2 years for a W to come around. Not sure where that person was getting that info from.
