I thought today I would list out my goals for my sitch. I really haven't done that concretely yet and feel at times I may be losing site or maybe not on the right track, so here goes:

1- To have my husband have some physical contact with me.
2- My husband will call or text me regularly.
3- My husband will ask me questions about my day or myself. (He has been so self centered during this dilemma and I miss his concern for me).
4- H will ask me out on a "date".
5- My husband will have a meaningful conversation with me about something not pertaining to our relationship for more than 20 minutes.

I know these may seem insignificant, but they mean something to me in the short term. Just will give me a little bit of satisfaction that I may be moving forward.