Pls help--confused and fearful

[Day by Day]

He thinks that's all he needs to pay? Am I right there?
Go for a long walk ...

Yep. Got it right. I think he's getting advice from OW on how to annoy me. Keep digging the hole... I should have gone for a long walk but went shopping and kept very distracted. Worked the same.

Wow, the Judge is NOT going to treat WH well!!! How is he so ignorant to think he doesn't even need to give you any money that would include child support?

Pure arrogance. Huge. I always heard about it, but I was in denial--I was in looove. He has a big ego. Thinks he's coq of the walk.

My thoughts are either, as I said he knows something we don't or he STILL doesn't believe you are going to an L. I believe it's the latter. Am I right in thinking that he has no real proof you have been to an L and are going through with it (ie. he has no papers etc. as yet)?

Yup.

Is he planning on moving abroad (as he works away anyway)? That won't stop CS (as there is international cooperation on CS) but it will make it incredibly difficult to collect.

I think it was a threat to see if it would get me to move on D for fear of not getting CS. I find it strange to hear that he is buying more furniture and putting in window treatments to his rental. That doesn't seem like he's moving anytime soon. But yes, it would be incredibly difficult to collect CS from abroad. I'm not afraid. If he is going to be such a cad, well I hope the law can help me and for karma to deal with him. And anyways, he'll have to travel back and forth to HQ so he'll be stopped as he enters the country and possibly put in jail for not paying.

Thanks all for your support. You all are so wonderful! {{hugs}}