You are right Michelle. How do I go about initiating friendship? Since our only communication is through the phone, how do I do that? Do I send letters by mail? Gifts?

I know the question may probably be easy for some to tackle, but I have to say I really don't know how to initiate friendship again. Probably because I've been stuck in the whole hurt, pain mode all those months. I never thought about initiating friendship. But it does make sense. You can't be lovers unless you are friends first.

Anyway, what could I do to start that phase?

JR09


Me:44
WAW:43
Children S13,S11,S7
Married 17 yrs
W left JUN 08
W filed JAN 09
D proceedings dismissed AUG 09
W refiles 1 MAR 11