Are you saying to have 2 separate birthday parties for D7 next weekend. One on my time with her and one on W's time with her instead of together? Also W's father is coming into town and W's family is planning on participating. To do this would alienate any progress I have made with MIL and the rest of the family. They would all view me as they did before.
Is that really the road I want to go down especially when we have already been discussing birthday plans?
Help me out here.
Drew, I just don't want to make a mistake. Ultimately I want to reconcile with W and have my family back intact along with my kids having both parents together and in the same house again. I just do not want to make the wrong move and completely eliminate that from happening down the road. I don't want to be percieved as a jerk and therefore no reason to look back at me.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
