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sandycay #1910496 01/06/10 08:08 PM
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Given a choice, I would always choose to spend 10 minutes as a streaker in Bobbi Jo's weather than 10 minutes skinny dipping in your harbor. I may be a technically a girl afterwards though.

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Originally Posted By: BobbiJo

Yep a judge will sign it but Rob (my atty) knows lots of judges. We don't have to go to court, he can just visit one and have him/her sign off on it as soon as Dan and I sign it...


Really? I'll have to ask my attorney about that one.. I know we can request a waiver in the 90 waiting period.. didn't realize all you had to do was seek out the judge... I thought they still had to set a court date for the signature.

did you do the children in the middle classes by now as well?


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Originally Posted By: Bridgestone
Originally Posted By: BobbiJo

Yep a judge will sign it but Rob (my atty) knows lots of judges. We don't have to go to court, he can just visit one and have him/her sign off on it as soon as Dan and I sign it...


Really? I'll have to ask my attorney about that one.. I know we can request a waiver in the 90 waiting period.. didn't realize all you had to do was seek out the judge... I thought they still had to set a court date for the signature.

did you do the children in the middle classes by now as well?


Hey:

Our 90 days started when I filed in September, so we are past that time limit now. We have 30 days from the day the decree is executed to complete the "Children in the Middle" class. I will be taking it in a week or two...


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It's interesting how every place is a little different. At least one of us had to take out class before it could be signed, really both. If someone chose to not take the class, then they don't get kid time.

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Originally Posted By: mindfull
Hey, Kerry! We have eight inches coming tomorrow! I'll share!


I can't refuse... but seriously MF I would think you would want to keep that all to yourself! lmao


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Originally Posted By: KerryK
Given a choice, I would always choose to spend 10 minutes as a streaker in Bobbi Jo's weather than 10 minutes skinny dipping in your harbor. I may be a technically a girl afterwards though.



No doubt shrinkage does apply in Puget Sound!~ blush


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Oh, no!

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Originally Posted By: sandycay
Originally Posted By: mindfull
Hey, Kerry! We have eight inches coming tomorrow! I'll share!


I can't refuse... but seriously MF I would think you would want to keep that all to yourself! lmao


Somehow I knew someone would comment on that... and LOOK who it was! LoL I was hoping you would share your HOSE! smile

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Originally Posted By: mindfull
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Hey, Kerry! We have eight inches coming tomorrow! I'll share!


I can't refuse... but seriously MF I would think you would want to keep that all to yourself! lmao


Somehow I knew someone would comment on that... and LOOK who it was! LoL I was hoping you would share your HOSE! smile


Look girlie, if I learned only one thing from all this crap is that I don't shsare well with others! LOL

Sorry for the hijack Bobbi.... I know you are snowed in!


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Originally Posted By: Bridgestone
Originally Posted By: BobbiJo

Yep a judge will sign it but Rob (my atty) knows lots of judges. We don't have to go to court, he can just visit one and have him/her sign off on it as soon as Dan and I sign it...


Really? I'll have to ask my attorney about that one.. I know we can request a waiver in the 90 waiting period.. didn't realize all you had to do was seek out the judge... I thought they still had to set a court date for the signature.

did you do the children in the middle classes by now as well?


I find this interesting...and BBJ..I have a question for you..

1st off..In Tn. both parents are required to attend the co-parenting class before a D is granted...also..in Tn..the Spouse who files for D is required to show up in court for the hearing..the other is not unless it is contested...

My 1st...I did not go to court..my second..I went because I wanted Kim to see me as she stood in open court..I wanted her to put a face with what she was doing..I really wanted the moment when she told the jugde she wanted a D "burned in her memory"...as a matter of fact I hope what she did and the D process causes her to have nightmares, bad dreams, visitations by demon spirits etc.. grin

and before someone yells.."Ah hell..Mike is just bitter"...I'll say this..I have no bitterness towards Kim at all..we get along really well to be divorced..we have a good co parenting relationship..

so my question to you BBJ....

why not go to court and have a judge sign it..with Dan present...just so he could feel it..see it..see your face, hear the emotion in your voice??

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