I don't see how this helps build a bridge back to each other.
Kevin
Because it once again FORCES her to SEE the REALITY of the situation. She is divorced in her mind Kevin, but because of you still holding on is not FEELING the EFFECTs of divorce. She still thinks you will want to play house even if you have another family. It's true DIVORCE isn't a game. Help her see that this is REAL. Not only will she loose YOU but also her "fantasy" of what her family is.
