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aka get the courts involved


I can't afford to. The funds aren't there and the L called me back and said not in my best interest that the current deal is the best I can probably hope for. He said I can put in the decree no sleep overs by men until and if W remarries which is standard. He also said I can ask for CS given our differences in salaries, but that it could lead her to go after custody if I do and I could end up losing big time.

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no family time


I don't see how this helps build a bridge back to each other.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...