oh. about the finances. Prior to our separation my X left a 6 figure income to start her own insurance business. Now she is regretting that decision. I stood my ground from day one. She stayed in the house. As part of our settlement agreement I was paying $500 pm towards the mortgage once she said she wasn’t paying the mortgage anymore and was going to let it foreclose I stopped giving her $500pm. She was pissed but I stood my ground. Eventually we settled on joint, physical custody but again she didn’t follow thru with her side of things so I filed for full like she had done. After the GAL's report came out recommending I get sole custody of our D4 she finally got her "wake up" call. That would probably have never happened if I folded like a lot of people choose to do.
My advice, once again, keep on tightening the screws. Force her to accept the reality of what she has done and continues to do. aka get the courts involved, separate finances, no family time. If I hadn’t had fought hard she would have never had to face the consequences of her actions. Some people are so screwed up and desensitized to what they are doing that you have to be the one.
Until you give your WAW the freedom she is begging for she will never know what it feels like to not have you in her life. Every time you show your hurt feelings to her she knows she has you right where she NEEDS you. Break the cycle. Be the MAN we all know you can be.
