No problem. Divorce was finalized last January. I eventually realized that I was in love with the person I wanted her to be not who she really was. A lot of us on this board have come to that realization.
Once the TRUST was broken over and over and I had finally moved on emotionally like she had it was done for me.
I still wish things could have been different especially for our daughters sake, but it is what it is. You have to eventually accept reality just like they eventually will.
Like I have recently posted. In the last couple days my X has let me know how sorry and regretful she is. I have told her that I wish she would have come to this revelation earlier. Plus she is still with the guy she had the affair with which makes it very difficult to trust her again. I am more interested in working on our relationship as co-parents.
