Sydneyl2u Hello, I'm so sorry you find yourself in this situation. I’m really new too, but this has been the best support system for me right now. I to have family and friends tell me to just file and move on. But deep down, I don’t want my marriage to end, and it doesn’t sound like you do either. Have you read DB or DR, these books are must read.
Here is a link to my story, and someone posted a list of do’s & don’ts that I think you will find helpful.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09
