which leads me to re-iterate the obvious, you are flip-flopping.
Interesting. I've said all along this is a LRT to try to get her to turn around, but I've also noticed lately how motivated and excited I'm getting to date other women. I've realized I'm free and can do what I want.
I also wonder if my W's "proposal" wasn't motivated by her hearing from the kids about this other woman in my life. During our talk she did ask me "Has your situation changed?" At this point I think she wanted to know that as legal ammunition to use against me.