Our initial status conference was scheduled for Oct. 29, but due to a snowstorm was postponed until Dec. 14. The Dec. 14 conference was a disaster and I fired my attorney and hired a new one. My stbxh feels I deserve nothing, should get nothing, and will receive nothing after 20 years. This is a business deal and I'm a fighter, so he's out of luck.

My sleeping and vision have both been compromised and I'm mad as heck, but dealing with it. There are worse things that could have happened.

I took a 10-week seminar that was amazing and I was able to build so many new supportive friendships that have carried me so far. Also, mountainwest and pearlharbor....it's been great meeting both of you.:)

Will update more, but I'm doing well and hopefully you are all, too. Life really does get better through all this.


Me 55
H 49
Married 21 years
No kids
bomb 5/09
filed 7/09
divorced and moving forward 5/10

Life is all about Plan B