How are you "hurting" your husband? Were you lying about him? Did you make up stories about his actions? My guess is no.
He is trying to keep you under his thumb. He doesn't want you to connect with anyone who can help you protect yourself.
If you feel you can no longer post here, that is your choice. But I would strongly recommend you talk to a counselor.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
