You are at the beginning of this. If you want to chalk it up to a loss after only three months, there is no way you are going to make it through. Throw in the towel.
This process ... regardless of the outcome ... will take years. You have two choices, buckle down and do the work, or forget about it.
You have only not talked to her for a week. I went six months. There is a woman who is a success story who talked to her H a handful of times over a two year period.
I realize this is very hard. And the thought of years is daunting. This is why you take one day at a time. Treat it like a recovering addict, ask yourself do you really NEED to call your W right now? What will happen if you don't? I know exactly how you feel, you are afraid that if you stop calling she will forget you.
She won't.
Right Jeffy Poo? I think you used to tell me the same thing...
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
