What can I do to save my marriage? Help

[motherof3]

Doc,

Word of caution: IMO, If you still want to work on your M then stay away from the HOT nurses. Nothing good can come from that.

BTW – After my H dropped the bomb, I had a little ‘nutty’ episode. Call it frustration, stress, anger, fear, shock, whatever. I was so worked up that H would not/could not answer any of my questions (this was prior to Dbing). I felt like nothing I could say or do would bring him to understand my POV. I felt like he wasn’t listening. So I grab his arm to get his attention. Things escalated from there. Nothing physical, but I sure did want to hit him just to make myself feel better. The worst part about this is I know that he would have just stood there and took the beating. I am not proud of this little moment, but it is what it is. So, yes, I agree with MF. We all can have moments of nuttiness. At the same time, I am not condoning your W’s behavior either.