Wife called to talk about her c appt. last night. he told her that sometimes a marriage is like a house and everything is done wrong, then you just tear it down foundation and all. I said that I totally agree that everything we built on our foundation was wrong, but I feel bad that you think our foundation wasn't ever good either. She says her c thinks it is very hard on the kids that I moved back in it's confusing them and making it hard for them. I said that you walked out on this marriage and you should be the one to leave and they don't have to worry about stability anymore because I'm here to stay.


7 year old son wrote a note to her last night that basically said love mom love dad, hope you get back together. Asked her how am I supposed to handle that. So I guess I just tell him I love him and that none of this is his fault.

Last edited by digger22; 01/06/10 05:48 PM.
me 31
her 31
ilybinilwy 10-2-09
i moved out 12-13-09
boy 7
girl 3
boy 16 months