Robx, you are a guiding light for us guys who need to "man up" and not take the BS anymore. I'm in awe and I don't say that often.
Tridoc, I've been following your thread and we have a lot of similarities except my wife is not acting out as much as yours. I work in a hospital (informatics pharmacist) and put in long hours and know the long hours docs like you put in and get little thanks on the homefront or get paid back with an affair for your sacrifice to provide for your family. As much as I envy you getting the hotties coming on to you, I would refrain from going there. Flirt with them to build your self esteem & confidence but keep them in a holding pattern for later should the M fail. If you hook up and your W does pursue a D then you come off as being a cocontributer to the demise of the M rather than the innocent LBS. Let her shoulder all the guilt should this wind up in court plus you can look your kids in the eye and say I did nothing wrong other than not meet her emotional needs.
