You can't help a patient unless the show up at the ED first. You also couldn't help them if you didn't have the skills and training to know how to appropriately help the patient. W is the same. She has to show up. If we are healthy and they show up, then there are things we can do to help.
Thanks, you are right Wonderful. It's hard though. I feel that I haven't been there. Now, this approach tells me to pull back more. It's tough. I feel that she wants me to prove myself. Show her that I have changed and can be there to protect her, care for her, love her, and be a great parent to my kids.
Originally Posted By: Wonderful!
Doc, you are playing with fire in relationships with other women. You are feeding your ego in a dangerous way that is contrary to your stated intentions. My advise would be to back off. Hope I can take my own advise.
I know. It seems like this gets a response from her though. I don't want to lead these women on either, but I can see how it could get out of hand really fast. Thanks for helping me out in these rough patches I get now and then. GIMA's sitch got to me.
Me:49 W: 41 Kids=D14/D14/S10 Married: 15 Together: 16 Bomb: 08/26/09 Currently: separated but in the different houses.